This post is about taking a step back from your daily routine and stopping to smell the roses.
We all strive for progress and success but this approach will open your eyes to a new angle of training. Being a passenger isn’t always a bad thing!
Being a passenger at the right times is actually very productive! What I mean is this, jut spending time with your horse is bonding you two stronger but sitting on your horse while they graze does more than that! While you’re just relaxing and watching them graze from their back you may braid their mane or find a good itchy spot or tell them about your day. To you it’s just you sitting on your horse enjoying the soothing sounds of them chewing. To them they are reading your body language, you’re relaxed, happy and trusting them. You’re not telling them what to do, you’re not working them hard, you’re just enjoying each other. They are bonding more because you’re not asking much of them at all and they can cruise around as they please and you’re just a passenger. This is a huge break from the normal where they are expected to obey your every whim.
This helps youngsters learn to carry a rider on uneven ground in a relaxing environment with minimal pressure. The youngster will also respect you more for being a friend and not a bossy “herd leader” per-say.
So next time it’s too hot to ride you can always do this, hop on, enjoy each other and your partnership will be healthier for it!
A common question I get is “how do you teach your horses to drop their head on their own? How do you release pressure without having control over the horse?”
The answer is simply this, I do have full control of the horse’s even though you see no ropes or contact they get their release the way I’ve taught them from the beginning. Having them move like this takes many stages not just one technique other than consistency and method change when they are ready to progress.
There are many steps the horse’s learn before being under saddle. This foundation also sets them up to move correctly under saddle. Their bodies are well conditioned and prepared before their first saddling and first ride.
The benefits of the “low and slow” at liberty like this teaches them control without restraints, respect and I use body language with them so they feel comfortable communicating in their “own language” per say. This adds comfort and understanding-which is the foundation of bonding and partnership. The low head set lifts their back and strengthens their back or “top-line” this helps them build proper muscling to carry a rider. The slow is good to teach for them to realize they have a few speeds instead of just go and stop. Controlling the horse speeds, having them transition into other speeds as you cue it. This helps when they are under saddle with a rider so there’s no confusion of what the rider is asking. Most of my youngsters jog naturally right away under saddle I rarely have to school them to have a nice slow trot just because we work on it from the ground first.
Ground work, patience and praise! A well prepared horse is a willing partner!
I get asked a lot how I achieve such full and long tails on my horses. We’ve all felt the struggle of growing tails right? We’ve all tried tail bags. They fall off, the tail dries out, we lose rubber bands it seems into thin air and the tail doesn’t seem to grow. The horse chews the bag off or rubs it off etc. Well here’s what I do to achieve a beautiful, thick tail that drags the ground. it’s simple! I wash it, braid it and wrap it with vet wrap. The tail stays clean, doesn’t dry out and when I take the wrap off the tail is at least 4-5 inches longer! I leave the wrap on for three months at a time. Every time I rewrap it I cut two inches off the ends to keep it healthy. Here’s how I wrap my tails to keep the wrap in place. I hope you enjoy my video 🙂
Topic today is BITS! Small bits, big bits, long bits, short bits, just the bit!
This is a very common issue that makes me cringe daily as I scroll through social media. Mostly it’s common human error due to lack of knowing Amy better and I totally understand that. Most that use bits incorrectly have the best of intentions but are unknowingly hurting their horse or back tracking and creating more to the issue instead of fixing the issue. So, here I am to help clear the air and create some sort of understanding when it comes to bits.
In my personal opinion a snaffle bit is all you’ll ever need. Paired with softening ground work you should never need more than a simple snaffle. Horses have two most sensitive places on their body, their anus and their mouth. Keep that mental picture as you now add the person that comes to mind who yanks on their horses face. What if you yanked like that on the other end of the horse? Not a pleasant thought huh? That being said, take the time to promote softness in the horse but also in your hands. If your hands are bouncing off the horse’s face because your flopping in the saddle, take some time to calm down your seat and relax. Learn to read your horses rhythm and match it. Riding is a far cry from just sitting in the saddle you’ve got to work hard too in order to create the pretty picture of unity.
Two common causes of people “needing bigger bits” are simply rider errors. “You made your bed and you are lying in it” as the term goes. Horses don’t start out with hard mouths it come from hard hands of the rider, too much contact and not enough release. The horse then learns to pull against the pressure to find its release instead because they no longer can rely on the rider to give it. The horse starts to not respond to the bit and the rider gets a bigger bit to “fix” the situation. This is only a bandaid, the horse will be soft with the new harsher bit for a while then it too will get used to this new bit and the cycle continues. This is when I hear “my horse doesn’t like any but I use”… no, the horse is not at fault. You just have the heavy hands of a construction worker and the sensitivity of a drill sergeant. SOFTNESS BEGINS WITH YOU!
Ok so we’ve addressed the common issue of why horse’s get transitioned into bigger bits here’s the life hack tip! STOP USING BOTH REINS AT THE SAME TIME! <<< Read that again. Softness is achieved when one rein is used at a time. I know you’re sitting there reading this saying “well my horse neck reins I ride with one hand I have to use both reins at once”, well my young grasshoppers, if you’re in constant contact with your horses face and you’re neck reining your horse needs to go back to the schooling pen and learn to neck rein with ONTLY PRESSURE ON THE NECK WITH THE REIN. This is the intended way of neck reining. Despite what people see on TV of old westerns and horse’s faces being yanked around that’s a perfect example of what NOT to do. Again, SOFTNESS STARTS WITH YOU!
Now let’s talk about bits! “The narrower the mouth, the harsher the bit” also “the longer the shank, the harsher the bit”. For example, let’s talk snaffles. A twisted wire mouth is much harsher than an eggbutt snaffle (Photo’s shown below). The eggbutt snaffle is one of the thickest you can find and I start my colts in this bit. The twisted wire is meant to catch the horse’s attention and is not meant to be used harshly or it will cause damage to the horse’s mouth. Still on the subject of snaffles there’s different side pieces that are meant for certain purposes. The “full-cheek” snaffle is great for teaching colts to turn and listen to the bit. The unique sides help push the horse’s face over when adding pressure also it’s nearly impossible for this bit to slip through the horse’s mouth. Then there’s the common “O- ring” snaffle that is the softest side you can find because it moves and has zero direct pressure. I personally love my “O-ring” snaffles I use them everyday on all levels of horses. Then the “D-ring” snaffle the D-ring is shaped like a D and is direct contact unlike the O-ring. It’s a step up from the O-ring. This bit is another I use frequently. There are thousands of bits but this is to help educate on the uses of the primary bits.
Before we finish up I’m going to add, if you are riding your horse in a shank bit weather the mouth is broken or solid with a port (port is a curb bit used on finished horses who can neck rein properly and softly) if you’re riding with a shank bit use ONE hand. If you’re “schooling” then go back to a simple snaffle not a shank. The shank is intended to direct pressure for riding with one hand. It’s not designed for two handed riding. If used with two hands it’s very harsh even tho you think it’s not because of the broken mouth. The longer the shank the harsher the bit. Snaffles are for two hands and schooling, shank bits are for one hand and neck reining.
Next time you ride just imagine having the bit under the horse’s tail instead of its mouth. Would you treat that area as harshly as you do their mouth?
Softness starts with you! If you want a soft horse, you need to become a soft rider!
Below are photos of bits I’ve mentioned.
The twisted wire bitThe eggbutt snaffle which is one of the softest bits you can find. Note the thick mouth piece.The O-ring snaffleThe traditional curb bit. The curve in the middle is called the port. The higher the port, the harsher the bit. Also this has mild shanks. The longer the shank the harsher the bit.Here is the long shank snaffle bit. Never to be confused with a regular snaffle because of the mouth piece. Not intended for use with two hands.Another favorite of mine, the Tom Thumb bit. This is the only shank bit I use on my finished horses after they graduate from the snaffle bits. Short shank, thick mouth, snaffle style bit. Not harsh at all and only intended for use with on hand once the horse is finished.Horses don’t need bits. Riders need bits.
Weather you see it or not, stick to your plan, be patient, reward the slightest “try” from your horse and listen to what they are trying to tell you. You follow these guidelines you’ll see progress in as soon as a week!
What I’m talking about is the fact that results can be seen in as less as one week if you’re dedicated, you listen to the needs of your horse, you don’t push for progress and you’re patient.
You ask most people they will say “you won’t see results in 30 days it takes longer”. Sure in some cases but if you’re listening to the horse your results will come faster than the average expected time. This is because most treat horses as a statistic and they feed it what the person at the feed store suggests, whom of which has never met your horse. These same people have adopted workout plans from watching clinics on you tube and expect noticeable results. That’s not how this works. Those have zero customization to what your horse needs as an individual. For example if I watch dance videos and workout tutorials in order to try to get myself fit it’s not going to work as well as if I go to the gym and get advice and coaching from a personal trainer. Customizing is key!
That all being said here’s my ONE WEEK TRANSFORMATION of my mare who was turned out to pasture all winter and just brought back into work. Results can happen you just need to listen to your horse.
Top photo is the day she started work and bottom photo is current. Note the relaxed body posture, and sudden change in color!
